Mother’s Day Giveaway Event featuring Levaqua

Life With Captain Fussybuckets has teamed up with Levaqua to offer you a great Mother's Day prize that Mom is SURE to love….a Levaqua® 220 OneTouch™ Fixed Digital Showerhead!  (click to read my review!)

Visit the Levaqua site for more info!

Giveaway has ended and Monja B. is the winner!  Congratulations!

Amtrak’s National Train Day is coming May 12th! {B. toys giveaway}

Are you looking for a great event for kids?  Amtrak's Fifth Annual National Train Day is coming to over 75 locations around the US!  National Train Day is an annual event that has family-friendly festivals and kid-focused events, teaching kids about trains and what makes train travel special.  Check out the National Train Day website to find a location near you, as well as the events that will be taking place at each location.

Check out some of the awesome entertainment that will be happening at select locations (check website to find where these events are going to take place.)

  • fun, interactive, and educational activities for kids – teaching children how trains work!
  • tours of freight and commuter trains and beautiful private railroad cars – for adults and children!
  • Dora the Explorer will be present in select locations!
  • Radio Disney will be emceeing all of the events!
  • Amtrak will be giving away free t-shirts and other memorabilia on-site for adults and children!

Train passengers are also encouraged to submit videos, pictures, and stories at NationalTrainDay.com, National Train Day on Facebook, and @natltrainday on Twitter for a chance to win prizes!

B. toys is excited to be the official toy partner of the Amtrak National Train Day!  We love B. toys!  B. toys will be showincasing their awesome building block toys – the Elemenosqueeze and Stackadoos at the kids' activity stations at the festivals.

The Elemenosqueeze and Stackadoos toys are perfect for building trains, cities, and anything else you can imagine!

To celebrate National Train Day, B. toys wants to give away one set of Stackadoos to one Life With Captain Fussybuckets reader!  Simply enter in the Rafflecopter form below!  Giveaway will end the night before National Train Day, on May 11, 2012 at 11:01 PM, central time.

Giveaway has ended and Rochel R. is the winner!  Congratulations!

**I received a toy from B. toys for compensation for writing this post and hosting this giveway.  There was no monetary compensation.**

Baked Spaghetti with Hidden Veggies

With the Captain's non-willingness to try hardly any vegetable, I'm always trying to think of ways to sneak in hidden veggies.  This probably has been done before, but here is my recipe for Baked Spaghetti with zucchini and butternut squash.

First, You take a zucchini:

Then I peeled it, but you can very well leave the skin on.  I just thought it would "hide" better without the skin.

Then I chopped it up, not too small, but not too big:

Then I tossed it in with the lean ground longhorn meat when it was about halfway cooked:

Then, when the meat was cooked, I added some spaghetti sauce, which often times has extra veggies already.

Then….I added three frozen pureed butternut squash cubes that I had in the freezer.  I like to add them to my spaghetti sauce because it makes it yummy and well, it's hidden!  No way would my hubby or my son touch butternut squash on it's own and it's likely that my hubby even knows it's in there.

Anyway, so then you throw in some whole wheat noodles or our favorite – Barilla PLUS® noodles, made with golden semolina and flaxseed, spelt, oats, barley, and legumes!  (but you'd never, ever know it, I promise!)

Then you put it in a casserole dish, sprinkle with mozzarella cheese and bake at 350 degrees for about 20-30 minutes or so.  I served our baked spaghetti with bread and zucchini cooked in olive oil with salt and Italian seasoning:

So how did my family like it?  The hubby loved it and asked to have it again.  He likes zucchini, though, so I knew he would like it.  Baby D gobbled up every bite including the zucchini!  He won't eat zucchini by itself, so this is a huge deal!  The Captain, however….I can't get one past him!  He picked out the zucchini but he did eat one on accident and was very proud of himself for chewing and swallowing it.  He couldn't pick out the butternut squash puree' though!  ha!

So, I call it a huge success!

How do you sneak veggies in to your family's meals?

Clean Your Home with non-toxic Surfy!

Natural House is a company that is changing how we clean our homes.  The make probiotic cleaning products that are non-toxic, safe, gentle, but yet still actually work to remove dirt, grime, and nastiness from your home.

I have used and continue to use Flushy, Trashy, and Sinky from Natural House, so I was excited when I heard that Natural House was coming out with new products, including Surfy, a surface cleaner that is safe to use on countertops, appliances, sinks, glass, stainless steel, toilets, and bathtubs.

I have used Surfy in my kitchen for a few days now, and I have been impressed with the results.  I think it's engrained in us that if we're not using harsh chemicals, it's not truly clean.  But, Surfy and the rest of the Natural House cleaners disprove this!  Surfy works just as well as any other cleaner that I've tried that contains harsh chemicals.  The probiotics in Surfy take care of the odors and gunk naturally, and leave a fresh scent that's definitely not overwhelming.  Surfy is great, as I knew it would be!

You can buy Surfy and the other Natural House cleaners at the Natural House website or Amazon for only $3.99, which is an excellent price for a natural cleaner!

Natural House is giving away a bottle of Surfy to one Life With Captain Fussybuckets reader!  Just enter in the Rafflecopter form below.  Giveaway ends at 11:01 PM, central time on May 11, 2012.  Good luck!

Giveaway has ended and Harold D. is the winner!  Congratulations!

 

Core Bamboo {sponsor spotlight – May Buffet Giveaway Hop}

Core Bamboo uses food safe water based adhesives and finish their beautiful products with top grade natural oils.  All of the bamboo used in making their products is 100% organic.  All of their products are top notch, gorgous pieces that you will be proud to use and display in your home!

We were able to review the 3 Part Entertainment Board Set from Core Bamboo.  This fancy little board is perfect for entertaining.  I can think of many ways to use this board….spreads, salsa, guacamole, fruit, veggies, dips, and even candy!  You can put bread, chips, crackers, cheese, or anything else, really, on the board and use the cute little bamboo spoons to pour, spread, or serve!

The diswasher safe ceramic bowls sit in a cut out portion of the 100% bamboo board to prevent spills and slippage:

The 3 Part Entertainment Board set sells for $60 on the Core Bamboo website.  Core Bamboo also has many other wonderful products, such as bowls, rolling pins, measuring boards, cutting boards, utensils, and much, much more!

Core Bamboo is giving one Life With Captain Fussybuckets reader their own Three Part Entertainment Board set!  Come back on May 1st to enter to win!  In the meantime, you can Core Bamboo on Facebook, follow Core Bamboo on Twitter, or place an order at the Core Bamboo website!

Have a cookout with Petit Jean Meats!

I'm so happy to announce that Petit Jean Meats is one of our sponsors for the huge May Buffet Giveaway Hop, where all giveaway items are food related!  YUM!

Petit Jean Meats have been making quality meats for a long time.  It all started in 1922 in Germany and has evolved over the years to delicious Petit Jean Meats!  They make smoked ham, peppered ham, hickory smoked bacon, and peppered bacon, (all of which is truly delicious!  I know because I've tried it!)  They also make smoked sausage, summer sausage, peppered beef, and turkey.  And I just learned on their website that they also sell delicious side items and desserts, such as pecan cobbler, cornbread dressing, sweet potato casserole, hot dogs, and much more.  And did you know that Petit Jean Meats is the official ham and bacon of the Dallas Cowboys?

 

Check out the Petit Jean Meats website to place an order!  Petit Jean Meats are also sold in select stores in Texas and Arkansas.  Find Petit Jean Meats on Twitter and Facebook, too.

And make sure to come back to Life With Captain Fussybuckets on May 1st to enter to win a fabulous prize pack from Petit Jean Meats!

National Infertility Awareness Week – Don’t Ignore Secondary Infertility

I hope that this has been an educational week, raising awareness for infertility through the guest posts and stories about infertility.  I am so honored to have one more fellow blogger's story.  After  you read her story, check out her blog at East 9th Street.

"My Uterus Needs A Welcome Mat"

Maybe my uterus isn’t inviting enough.   You know how it is when you’re looking for a new house and you drive by one that sounded great on paper but looks less than desirable?  I’m starting to wonder if that’s what going on each month during ovulation.  My eggs have an ad posted but my husband’s sperm are swimming by thinking, “we’d love to stop but that place is so old.  Let’s find something newer.”  They say curb appeal is everything so maybe my uterus does need a welcome mat.

My husband and I have been trying for over an 18 months to get pregnant.  The first six months we understood – it takes time.  The six months after that, we started to get worried and now over eighteen months from the time we started, we’re discouraged.  The biggest thing we have against us is our ages.  I’m 37 and he’s 49.  Not old by any means in terms of how we approach life but when it comes to our fertility, let’s just say we should be getting our AARP cards sometime soon.

We had our daughter when I was 35.  I never thought I wanted children but after an oops and a miscarriage, I realized that I wanted a baby more than anything.  We did everything my OB/GYN told me to do and within 3 months of trying, we were pregnant.  An easy conception, an easy pregnancy and a really easy birth, what more could I ask for? 

Fast-forward almost 3 years later and all we want is another baby.  Both of us have a clean bill of health – I ovulate, his boys swim, all of our hormones levels are where they should be. We’ve only told a handful of people that we’re trying so much of our struggles have been in private.  It’s not that our families and friends wouldn’t be supportive, its more because we don’t want the added pressure of them knowing what we’re going through.  We’ve already put enough pressure on ourselves. 

So we’ve decided that whatever happens, happens.  We’ll continue to do everything we can control to improve our chances of having another baby.  Our insurance doesn’t cover infertility treatments and we’re not in the position to pay for them out-of-pocket.  When people ask me if we’re going to have another baby, I just tell them we’re not sure.  After all, that is an honest answer.  Hopefully someday I’ll be able to answer that question with an emphatic, “why yes we are” and then you’ll know, the welcome mat worked. :)

Susan Brown’s Baby Natural Skin Care for Baby and Mom {review}

We were able to review Susan Brown's Baby Foaming Shampoo & Baby Wash.  I was eager to try it out because it is free of phthalates, sodium lauryl sufate, parabens, and is pH balanced to be tear free and kind to skin!  The boys and I all used the foaming shampoo & baby wash and had no issues at all.  We really liked it!

The Foaming Shampoo & Baby Wash smells really good and I really like the cap, too.  You know how it is when you're bathing little ones…you don't have free hands to open the bottle, squeeze some out in your other hand and then wash the baby.  The cap on the shampoo & baby wash is simple.  You can open it with one hand, squeeze firmly and then the foam squirts out, making it simple for bath time.

Susan Brown's Baby offers other products for Babies and Moms, too.  All Purpose Botanical Gelee, Lotion-to-Powder, lotion, cleansing cloths, foot soak, foot cream, massage oil, diaper therapy ointment, and even gift baskets!  Check out Susan Brown's Baby website for these great products!

Susan Brown's Baby Foaming Shampoo & Baby Wash retails for $7.99 at the Susan Brown's Baby website.  You can also buy it on Amazon and Babies R Us.  Follow Susan Brown's Baby on Facebook, too!

Three Year Olds are Weird.

Three year olds are weird.  I always knew this, from my days of baby-sitting and teaching Bible class, but boy, is it true.  Three is that awkward stage between toddlerhood and preschool where the imagination goes crazy and they have a vocabulary to express themselves.  Today alone, my son has used the word "poop" inappropriately and has pretended to "smoke" a piece of plastic he found on the ground.  Now, "poop" and other private words aren't bad words and we certainly don't teach him that because he has to be able to say SOMETHING to let us know how he's feeling, but we're trying to teach him that they're only words you say to Mommy, Daddy, or the doctor.  (or grandparents or baby-sitters, if the need arises, but that's a toughie.)  He's still learning and that's okay, but if you know us and you interact with my son, please know that he's in this awkward stage and we don't allow him to inappropriately talk like this in public.  Saying "I need to poop" is one thing, but saying "we eat poop" is NOT okay, obviously.  But, like I said, you don't learn these things overnight when you're three.  

Speaking of overnight, I figured out the the kid sleeps longer on our floor than he does in his room, each and every night.  I guess that phase is lasting longer than I thought it would.  He's also in the stage where he still needs a nap but he sleeps better at night without one.  But then again, sometimes he misses a nap and sleeps so fitfully because he's overtired.  So, it's a challenge.  I think I'll stick with the daily naps because fitful night sleeps are the worst.  And the grumpiness that ensues the following day?  YIKES.

The Captain also has his hang-ups.  He's hung up on the fact that every woman who is wearing a bathing suit or is exposing her stomach in any way MUST be a Dallas Mavericks' cheerleader.  

He's also learning to spell, read, sound out words, and pay attention to context clues.  That makes spelling certain words difficult for Daddy and I.  But, the fact that he's learning how to do such things is remarkable and we'll take it.

And…we've known this for a long time, but the little dude has a remarkable photographic memory.  He remembers things, honest to goodness, from when he was almost two years old.  Sure, we have pictures of things to jog his memory, but from those pictures, he can remember other things that happened at that time that we don't have pictures of.  He continues to surprise us every day, with random things he remembers from two houses ago!  It's crazy!  This, also, is keeping us on our toes and being careful not to expose him to things beyond his years, if we can help it.  (not sheltering, mind you, not making him live in a bubble, but introducing things slowly so we can attack the worldly things one at a time!)

So, all in all, three year olds ARE weird, but this is such a fun, fun age.  He loves his little brother SO much (even though he continually "roars" in his face and makes him upset.)  They are best friends and we are so blessed by these two, weird little dudes!  :)

 

Disclaimer:  I am using "weird" in the best way possible.  Being "weird" is not a bad thing!

 

National Infertility Awareness Week: One Woman’s Long, Painful Journey To Motherhood

A very dear friend of mine has been through more heartache than anyone should.  She endured four+ years of infertility, carried a baby to term, only to lose the baby in the first two months of life, due to a rare heart condition.  Not a day goes by that she doesn't think of her precious baby, I'm positive.  Infant loss has to be one of the hardest things to endure.

But my friend is a strong, brave woman.  She and her husband decided that this wasn't the end of their journey to become parents.  After all, they WERE parents, as this precious baby made them parents, but they wanted to try again.  This time, the journey to pregnancy didn't take quite as long, and they were blessed with twins who are happy and healthy today.

What fascinates me about this story is just what she and her husband went through to become parents.  She is a wonderful note taker, so she kept notes about everything she went through.  She shared this with me, to share with you.  What a testimony to the women and men out there who are trying so desperately to have their own child.  Take a moment (or a few moments!) and read through her history:

 

2003
01/03 Stopped BCPs
03/03 Stopped preventing
07/03 Acupuncture started (improved blood flow; removed cramps; regulated cycle)
08/03 Sperm Analysis (14 million count)
09/03 Bloodwork – Thyroid ok
10/03 Sperm Analysis (200 million count)
2004
01/04 Diagnosed with ureaplasma/mycoplasma bacteria (Antibiotics husband & I)
01/04 B/W Prolactin – 24.2 (7pm)
02/04 B/W Prolactin – 33.7 (11:30am) 
03/04 B/W Prolactin – 46.4 (8am) [GYN wouldn't prescribe meds]
03/05/04 HSG (tubes clear, no pain)
04/09/04 Last day of acupuncture
04/26/04 Moved out of state; quit work to "remove stress"
07/07/04 First consultation with RE
07/07/04 B/W CA-125 test (9iu normal)
07/12/04 Started Bromocriptine 2.5mg/day (for elevated prolactin) 
08/27/04 LAP: found & removed Endo Stage III 
09/22/04 Started Follistim AQ pen 150mg (CD2 E2:43, FSH:4.6) 
09/27/04 Follistim dosage to 75mg (CD8 E2:382; 11mm-14mm) 
09/29/04 HCG Shot 10pm (CD10 E2:929; 2@18mm, 1@15mm) 
10/01/04 IUI #1 10am (40 million washed sperm) – uncomfortable
10/02/04 Prometrium tablets 200mg 2x day (Progesterone)
10/11/04 B/W Prolactin 8.4; Progesterone 39.8
10/14/04 BPT < 2 BFN
10/18/04 U/S Cysts: 30mm (right), 14mm & 10mm
10/19/04 Started 3weeks on BCPs
11/04-12/04 Two natural cycles, unsuccessful
2005
1/17/05 Started Follistim AQ pen 225mg (CD4 E2:30, FSH:6.3); Dex 0.25mg
1/21/05 CD8: E2:720; 1-16mm, 2-12mm, 1-11mm (Follistim to 75mg)
1/24/05 CD11: E2:889; 1-23mm, 2-20mm, 1-18mm, (HCG shot 12:15am)
1/26/05 IUI #2 2pm (90 million washed sperm, 1/3 motile)
1/27/05 Prometrium tablets 200mg 2x day (Progesterone)
2/09/05 BPT < 2 BFN
2/16/05 IVF Class
3/03/05 Started acupuncture again
3/14/05 Started BCPs (to lower estrogen)
4/01/05 Started Lupron (20u, 9 days) and Dexamethasone (0.25mg)
4/10/05 Started stimming with Follistim (300u, lowers to 225u, etc.); lower Lupron to 5u
4/20/05 IVF ER (9 retrieved, 6 mature, 5 fert)
4/26/05 IVF#1 ET with three 5-day embies [CAVM, CAVM, EB]
4/27/05 PIO & HCG injections etc.
5/05/05 Beta = 3 BFN; stop all meds
5/25/05 Follow-up consult with RE; b/w for antibodies
6/07/05 Anticardiolipin borderline negative (11); all others negative (<11)
6/21/05 Last acupuncture (she moved)
7/20/05 AF delayed by 2 weeks, but 5 BFNs (inc. BPT)
7/22/05 BCPs started
8/30/05 Last BCP
9/02/05 Baseline u/s; started Dex & aspirin; E2-13, FSH-5.3, LH-3.3
9/04/05 300u Follistim & 75u Repronex each night
9/08/05 CD8: E2:181; 1-11mm, 1-12mm, none on left
9/09/05 CD9: E2:?; 1-13mm, 1-15mm, no others; Follistim to 150u, stop Repronex [IVF#2 converted to IUI]
9/10/05 Follistim 150u 
9/11/05 10,000u HCG shot 9:30pm
9/13/05 IUI #3 didn't happen: no sperm, no BD, no 2WW for me
November IVF booked – signed up for January IVF
12/28/05 Didn't start AF on time, so unable to participate in January 2006 IVF
2006
1/13/06 Lap – found & removed cysts and more endo
1/26/06 Started BCPs for suppression
3/16/06 Start Lupron (20u, 9 days) and Dexamethasone (0.25mg)
3/23/06 FSH 6.0, E2 13. One 11mm cyst. OK to start.
3/25/06 Start stimming with 225u Follistim & 75u Repronex each night; lower Lupron to 5u in morning
3/30/06 E2 54; Lining 2mm; 3 small follies on left, nothing on right (cyst gone); increase the Repronex to 150u
3/31/06 E2 129; follicles 12mm, 8mm, 7mm
4/01/06 E2 152
4/03/06 E2 432; Lining 9mm; follicles 15mm, 12mm, 8mm
4/04/06 E2 649; follicles 18mm, 13mm, 10mm; cycle converted to IUI (HCG trigger shot 10pm)
4/06/06 IVF#3 converted to IUI#3 10am CD15 (35 million sperm post-swim-up)
4/07/06 Prometrium tablets 200mg 2x day (Progesterone); Dexamethasone (4mg)
4/12/06 CD21 B/W: Progesterone 54.5; Prolactin 9.6
4/20/06 Beta <2 BFN
5/04/06 New clinic consultation
5/18/06 AF started 
5/19/06 Baseline b/w [FSH & E2 good]
5/21/06 – 6/5/06 BCPs 
5/29/06 DH & I start Z-pak (antibiotic)
5/30/06 Started acupuncture again
5/31/06 – 6/24/06 10u/night Lupron 
5/31/06 Start baby aspirin and 0.25mg dexamethasone daily
6/14/06 Suppression scan (u/s and b/w)
6/18/06 Start 225u Gonal-F x2/day , 10u low dose HCG
6/23/06 First scan (u/s and b/w) – IVF#4 cycle canceled [16,14,14,10,9,7mm]
6/25/06 Trigger
6/27/06 BD naturally
7/11/06 HPT BFN
8/28/06 Acupuncturist said my pulse was different (4DPO)
9/11/06 Acupuncturist said my pulse was different (18DPO/CD2)
9/15/06 Saw my first and only ever faint line (21DPO/CD6) B- [evaporation line?]
12/1/06 Stopped acupuncture, stopped Bromocriptine
2007
02/07 Started looking into adoption
05/07 Took Foster Parent training classes
06/07 Started researching donor eggs and donor embryos
07/05/07 Phone consult with RE at CCRM
07/18/07 One day workup at CCRM; low antral follies so no more IVFs
07/25/07 Annual exam (pap), prolactin tested at 28 (<19 ok)
08/10/07 Annual mammogram (all ok)
09/18/07 Matched with a proven egg donor!! [Born 1983; her previous cycle: 23 eggs, 17 fertilized, 9 blasts, twin pregnancy due March 2008.]
10/03/07 CD3 – started mock cycle locally; one estrogen patch every other day
10/09/07 E2 = 58 (>50, ok)
10/10/07 Blood draw for STDs (DH & I)
10/11/07 CD10 Two estrogen patches
10/13/07 CD12 Three estrogen patches
10/15/07 CD14 Four estrogen patches every other day; E2 = 158 too low (>300 ok); lining 12, striped (very good)
10/15/07 DH: semen analysis; blood draw for Cystic Fibrosis test [was supposed to also do semen culture test]
10/16/07 CD15 Start Progesterone tablets 200mg 3x day
10/25/07 Endo bx; stopped estrogen and progesterone
10/26/07 Prolactin tested again (fasting in the morning), was high 46
10/28/07 CD1, waiting for schedule
10/30/07 On BCPs (Yasmin 28)
11/01/07 Calendar received for 12/17/07 ET!
11/06/07 Biopsy results are BAD. I am missing Beta-3 Integrine, an enzyme that helps embryos adhere to the uterine lining. Cycle postponed.
11/18/07 Last BCP
11/23/07 First Depot-Lupron shot (CD1) [Method started to fix enzyme issue]
12/21/07 28 days later Second Depot-Lupron shot IM
2008
01/18/08 28 Days later Start BCPs and get new calendar
01/23/08 Prolactin tested: 3 [RE says excellent]
01/30/08 Twice weekly acupuncture started again
02/03/08 Start Lupron 10u/day
02/04/08 DH & I started Doxycycline 2x/day for ten days
02/15/08 Start Estrogen (1 patch every other day), oral estrace, low dose aspirin
02/21/08 Blood draw E2 = 138 (>50, great); 2 patches
02/22/08 Donor's baseline good; all set to start
02/24/08 Donor starts stims! 3 patches
02/26/08 4 patches (every other day)
02/29/08 Donor's first u/s: 20 follies!
03/02/08 Fly to Colorado (CCRM)
03/03/08 U/S and E2; mtg w/ Physician; DH provides back-up sperm sample [Donor: coasting with 20 follies to mature them; Me: triple striped 9mm lining and 431 E2(>300); DH: 67 million sperm, motility 43%, morphology 2%]
03/04/08 Last Lupron shot
03/05/08 First Progesterone (PIO) shot, 1cc daily
03/06/08 Donor ER (w/ICSI); b/w Prog 20 & E2 1000; start Medrol & Tetracycline (for 4 days each) [DH: 140 million sperm; motility after prep 85%; 2% morphology]
03/07/08 Embryologist report: 22 eggs retrieved, 16 were mature, 14 fertilized with ICSI; increase to 2cc PIO
03/09/08 Day 3 report: They want to see: 6-10 cells; grade 4 (best) or 4-, 3+; We have: 9 good embryos (meaning they are where they want to see them), 3 slower at 4 cells, 2 that are 7 cells but fragmented, so lower grade 
03/11/08 5-day ET: 200mg Prometrium at 7am vaginally; Acupuncture at 11:30 am; transfer at 1:15 pm (one perfect expanded blast; second slower blast); acupuncture post-ET
03/17/08 Relaxed pulse was 84 instead of usual 60-70
03/18/08 Positive HPT at 6am (FRER)! Started 200mg Prometrium vaginally 3x/day
03/19/08 Beta #1: 152; P4 >40 (13dpo)
03/21/08 Beta #2: 390 (doubling time=1.47 days); P4=78
03/28/08 Beta #3: 8488 (doubling time=1.57 days); P4=76, E2=455
04/04/08 Blood draw P4>40, E2=793
04/06/08 First spotting (brown blood) accompanied by cramping in center of pelvis
04/07/08 First ultrasound & OB consult: Singleton (0.62cm=1/4") measuring 6w4d with heartbeat (116bpm)
04/08/08 Start weaning off bromocriptine: half pill x7 days then stop
04/11/08 Blood draw P4=80.1, E2=382
04/18/08 Blood draw P4>40 , E2=921
04/19/08 Cut down to 3 patches every other day, 1 cc PIO daily, maintain estrace & prometrium x3 day
04/21/08 Vision migraine #3 in 3 weeks
04/22/08 Blood draw: P4=98, E2=1003
04/23/08 Cut down to 2 patches every other day; prometrium x2 day
04/25/08 Blood draw: P4=120, E2=670
04/26/08 Cut down to 1 patch every other day; prometrium x1 day
05/02/08 Blood draw: P4=58, E2=634; no changes to meds
05/08/08 Blood draw: P4=73.1, E2=636
05/08/08 NT scan: 1.2mm fold (1 in 10,000 risk for trisomy & downs); HB 188 bpm; baby 4.23cm long, measuring 11w
05/10/08 Stop patches; 1cc PIO every other day
05/12/08 Blood draw: P4=72, E2=592
05/15/08 Blood draw: P4=44, E2=748; stop all meds next day
05/19/08 Blood draw: P4=42, E2=709; all stable, released to OB
05/23/08 Second trimester!
06/13/08 Blood draw: Risk factors are 1 in 2,500 for Downs, 1 in 10,000 for Trisomy 18, 1 in 6,000 for Spina Bifida
07/10/08 Scan (20w u/s) revealed possibility of "hypoplastic left heart", a rare congenital heart defect in which the left side of the heart is severely underdeveloped; the OB also mentioned "DiGeorge Syndrome", a chromosonal disorder where one of the symptoms is heart defects, but an amnio or blood test after birth must be performed to confirm this; baby is 14 oz., 131 bpm, measuring 21 weeks, all else looks great
07/14/08 Talked with RE at CCRM, he said that sperm quality probably caused the embryo quality drop off after day 3. If there is a next time, DH would do Sperm Chromatin Structure Assay (SCSA).
08/06/08 Fetal echo cardiogram: diagnosed with (1) AV canal defect with small left ventricle; (2) double outlet right ventricle; (3) pulmonary valve atresia. Treatment includes: (a) prostaglandin to keep ductus arteriosis open after birth; (b) Blalock-Taussig Shunt in first week; (c) Glenn Shunt at 5-6 months; (d) completion of Fontan Procedure at 3 years.
08/28/08 Third trimester!
09/04/08 Prenatal appt: u/s showed baby moving well; baby lying head down right, rear up left; gained 23 pounds to date. Did Glucose Intolerance (one hour) test.
09/05/08 Consult w/cardiac surgeon.
09/09/08 Passed GD test (129)
09/15/08 Started BH Contractions
09/18/08 OB appt & growth scan: Baby is 3 lbs. 8oz. (50th %); feet very long; lots of amniotic fluid; no fluid around heart, HB 133; did internal exam – not dilated; first hypnobirthing class
09/19/08 Consult w/second cardiac surgeon
09/24/08 Fetal echo #2: no change to diagnosis, veins and arteries nice and strong; Tour of L&D NICU
10/02/08 Prental visit, BP 117/71, pulse 74, baby looks good; second hypnobirthing class
10/05/08 Coming down with a cold
10/08/08 Meet with Doula
10/11/08 Childbirth Prep class
10/13/08 First non-stress test (NST) – passed, HB 145 bpm
10/16/08 NST passed; checked amnio fluid levels (9.5) – good [between 5 and 20]; OB appt – all good
10/20/08 NST passed; started swelling of legs and ankles at night
10/22/08 Meet with Doula
10/23/08 NST passed, HB 135 bpm; Amnio level 16; BP 114/69
11/16/08 Surprise! It's a girl! Baby girl born.
12/01/08 Baby underwent open-heart surgery to correct about four defects, installed a b-t shunt
12/17/08 Baby underwent surgery for abdominal corrections
12/18/08 Baby died due to blood clot in her shunt
2009
01/09/09 Started Energy Healing to balance hormones, relieve pain of grief
01/21/09 Sperm Chromatin Structure Assay: sperm integrity is good, all results normal
02/05/09 First post-partum AF
03/05/09 Mock cycle to start; mammogram & breast exam
03/07/09 CD3 Start estrogen patches every other day
03/13/09 Estradiol 67 (should be >50); ok but adding 1 estrace tablet orally per day now
03/17/09 One day work up at CCRM; u/s: lining 11mm triple striped, ovulated and making progesterone, excellent blood flow; hysteroscopy: no scars, perfect; b/w: estradiol 117, STD testing etc.
03/20/09 Started taking low dose aspirin x1 day on my own
03/22/09 (Started 200mg prometrium early 2x day in case of BFP)
03/23/09 Estradiol only 297 (>300 good), but can cut back to 2 patches, stop estrace; RN said lining was great and that was the important thing
03/24/09 200mg prometrium 3x day for ten days, then stop patches, too
03/28/09 BFNs on digital (FMU) and FRER
04/04/09 First Depot-Lupron shot (CD1)
04/29/09 Matched with a new donor! [Born 1983, first time]
05/02/09 Second Depot-Lupron shot IM
05/07/09 Blood draw (fasting): Prolactin level 40 (too high); CBC and thyroid normal; started Bromocriptine
05/23/09 Breakthrough bleeding
05/26/09 Start BCPs
06/15/09 Start Lupron 10u/day
06/15/09 DH & I started Doxycycline 2x/day for ten days
06/19/09 Last BCP
06/22/09 CD1; Blood draw (fasting): Prolactin level 5 (excellent)
06/24/09 Start Estrogen (1 patch every other day), oral estrace, low dose aspirin, Lupron to 5u/day
06/29/09 Twice weekly acupuncture started again
07/02/09 Blood draw E2: 155 (>50); 2 patches
07/04/09 3 patches (every other day)
07/05/09 Donor starts stims 
07/08/09 4 patches (every other day); Donor's first u/s: follicles 9-10 on left and 14-15 on right
07/09/09 Donor cycle canceled: she is not responding correctly to meds and may not be taking them properly (which she denies).
07/10/09 Cycling now with new frozen egg donor (b. 1986, 18 mature eggs) in new "egg vit" program
07/12/09 Fly to Colorado (CCRM); last Lupron shot
07/13/09 U/S and E2; thaw frozen eggs & fertilize(w/IMSI); b/w E2 762; start Medrol & Tetracycline (for 4 days each), first Progesterone (PIO) shot, 1cc in AM, 200mg Prometrium in PM
07/14/09 B/w P4 46; Embryologist report: of our 18 frozen eggs, 16 survived the thaw and 13 fertilized.
07/16/09 Day 3 report: All 13 still growing, 12 are good (6-10 cells) and one is just 2 cells
07/18/09 5-day ET (2 grade 4AA perfect embryos, 3 frozen); acupuncture pre&post-ET; E2 312, P4 33
07/19/09 Six more embryos frozen (total of nine in five straws: 4@4BA,4BB and the rest less)
07/23/09 10dpo HPT BFP; increase prometrium vaginally 3x day
07/26/09 13dpo Beta #1 – 171, P4 26
07/28/09 15dpo Beta #2 – 371 (Doubling 1.78 days), P4 26, E2 269
08/03/09 B/w: E2 344, P2 44
08/10/09 B/w: E2 472, P4 60
08/13/09 First u/s (6w3d): Twins – Baby A 6w1d 140bpm; Baby B 6w2d 140bpm; b/w: E2 838, P4 53
08/17/09 B/w: E2 734, P4 52; reduce patches to 3 every other day, prometrium 2x/day
08/19/09 B/w: E2 603, P4 61
08/25/09 B/w: E2 913, P4 54; reduce to 2 patches
08/28/09 B/w: E2 827, P4 65; reduce to 1 patch and 1 prometrium at night
09/01/09 U/s (9w1d): Baby A 9w2d 180bpm; Baby B 9w2d 175bpm; b/w: E2 971, P4 86
09/02/09 Stop patches; reduce PIO shots to every other day
09/04/09 B/w: E2 758, P4 62; no changes to meds
09/09/09 B/w: E2 827, P4 57
09/11/09 Last PIO shot, last estrace tablet
09/14/09 B/w: E2 767, P4 55; no more meds *graduated from the RE*
09/28/09 NT scan (13w0d): 1.8mm folds (1/10,000 risk for DownS); Baby A 13w3d 154bpm; Baby B 13w6d 165bpm; first video
10/27/09 Anatomy scan (17w1d): Baby A 17w5d 147bpm 0.8 oz; Baby B 17w3d 156bpm 0.7oz; cervix great 5cm; hearts look great; expecting two boys!
11/02/09 Results of sequential screening test: 1/9000 risk for DownS, 1/1600 risk for Spina Bifida
11/24/09 Second anatomy u/s (21w1d): Baby A 22w1d 141bpm 1 lb. 1 oz; Baby B 22w0d 147bpm 1 lb. 0 oz; cervix 6cm!
12/14/09 Three days of excessive BHs
12/16/09 Fetal echocardiogram (24w2d): Baby A 26w3d 147bpm 1 lb. 14 oz; Baby B 25w1d 153bpm 1 lb. 10 oz; cervix still 6cm; fundus measures 33 wks! Both babies have all normal heart and arterial structures.
12/22/09 Very painful sacroilitis for two days – chiro appt fixed it.
2010
01/07/10 (27w3d): Baby A 30w1d 133bpm 3 lb. 0 oz; Baby B 29w1d 144bpm 12 lb. 13 oz; both babies head down; Baby B has higher than normal amniotic fluid; GT test done, results Monday [125<139, passed!]
01/25/10 (1am-6am) Excessive BH CX sent me to L&D this morning! FFN negative, cervix still high, closed, hard.
01/25/10 (30w0d) OB appt and limited scan (fluid levels and cord doppler): Baby B's fluid level is normal; both babies are head down; all is well
02/05/10 (31w4d) Thought my water broke; emergency office visit tests all negative
02/09/10 (32w1d) Passed first NST; fundus is sized 45 cm x 59 cm; BP 109/73. Baby A: 35w4d, 5 lb 4 oz, 150 BPM; Baby B: 34w4d, 4 lb 15 oz, 136 BPM. 
02/26/10 (34w4d) Fundus 47 cm! Fetal heart rates 135/150. Passed NST.
03/05/10 (35w4d) Urinalysis shows +2 sugar +3 protein; Group B Strep swab (negative); 50% effaced, baby not engaged.
03/08/10 (36w0d) Emergency visit due to Pre-Eclampsia symptoms (very swollen in feet/legs, swelling in hands and face; headaches). Urinalysis normal, bloodwork mostly normal, platelet count is low 126 (<140), BP 111/71. Baby A seems to be lower. Getting harder Cx. Passed NST.
03/12/10 (36w4d) Urinalysis normal, BP 116/68; platelets stable (128). Baby A: 36w3d, 6 lb 5 oz, 129 BPM; Baby B: 36w6d, 6 lb 12 oz, 142 BPM. Babies still head down.
03/19/10 (37w4d) Passed NSTs, both babies HBs in the 140s. Urinalysis normal, BP 122/70; 1cm dilated, 50% effaced; stripped membranes. Have pitting edema in feet and legs.
03/21/10 (37w6d) Passed NSTs: Baby A 125, Baby B 140; BP 114/71. Fluid level around Baby A is too low, need to induce right away
03/22/10 (38w0d) Induction scheduled 7:30am at L&D; Babies A and B born. No NICU time. Everyone healthy.

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